tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11425001.post8447419546755204242..comments2024-03-29T01:21:09.549-04:00Comments on YGB - יג"ב: Rav Dessler on Hitting ChildrenYosef Gavriel Bechhoferhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10264311760560329892noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11425001.post-78590472200884226052021-05-03T12:11:48.367-04:002021-05-03T12:11:48.367-04:00Yup.Yup.Yosef Gavriel Bechhoferhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10264311760560329892noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11425001.post-4359153141159976632021-05-03T10:57:43.375-04:002021-05-03T10:57:43.375-04:00Not quite R Shelomo Wolbe's זריעה ובניין בחינו...Not quite R Shelomo Wolbe's זריעה ובניין בחינוך.<br /><br />I don't know how R Dovid raised his kids. But when he needed to rebuke a talmid, it was with a soft voice, holding his hand, and an attitude of "you and I both know you are much better than this."<br /><br />I tried this with my kids. I lack my rebbe's middos. I had to give it up because that affectionate stroking rapidly became squeezing arms too tight.micha bergerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11612144735431285113noreply@blogger.com